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Monday, 5 August 2013

Realizing New People


We live a simple life. We pass our grades and move from school to college. We jump from college to university. We think that thats whats going to happen. Simple and straight? Same people? Same honesty. Same level. Well we are wrong and thats alright. We are human. We are meant to make mistakes, not fake imperfections. 

Well it goes like this, a person knows some people in his school life. If the same people go with him to the same college, then thats cool. Well in Pakistan, 11th and 12th grade are regarded as  the college life. So almost the same school fellows jump in the same college and life is good. And simple. But we do meet some new people. And by meeting, i mean knowing. We know new people in every era. You go to a party, even though you're a friend of friend, you manage to know some people, add them on facebook and thus maybe like some of their pictures. Well coming to the point, you get to know people. But do we really get to know those people? The question is that.

- A person gets mature with time. With the experiences he or she has dealt with. A person who has not known new people, can't gain that much experience as compared to that person who has met people and has learnt the lesson the hard way. Thats my personal opinion. Though some people are sharp and thats the good way of letting your inner self be in you!

Moving on, the person then starts getting into his practical life, it includes universities, internship programs, jobs and future knowings. He sees that many people are becoming his friends and gets very happy. But what he fails to see is that with a number of people knowing him, he has to know them back the real way, because many people think that the new people he is meeting are just like the old people, old friends he made in school or college life. Thats where the practical life starts. Its good for the person if the person gets to know that person before time or by judging(ONLY IF THE OTHER PERSON IS REALLY WANTING TO KNOW YOU) then thats good for us. And if the person fails to do so, then the outcomes are really bad.

In practical life, people compete with you and know you because of some work. Know them back because of that too. Limit yourself and draw a line between whose professional and whose personal. And the good point is, people don't bother at such a stage about you.

- Fakeha Ali